Inauguration Day: hope, change, logistics

January 5, 2009

My husband and I were standing in an enormous human bottleneck outside Philadelphia's Lincoln Financial Field, waiting to clear security and take our seats at last month's Army-Navy game - President Bush was attending - when we came to the same conclusion.

Recent columns

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  December 29, 2008

  I like the way Malcolm Gladwell thinks.

• Economy leaves us too stunned to move

  December 22, 2008

  Christmas cheer is hard to find this year, and harder to hang on to. I know I lost mine when Wal-Mart's chief marketing officer, Stephen Quinn, declared, with smug self-assurance, "We know that Mom's not going to cancel Christmas."

• The brief indiscretion that never ends

  December 15, 2008

  Here's another conversation parents didn't know they had to have with their kids: Don't send nude photos of yourself out into cyberspace.

• Studying the truth about consequences

  December 8, 2008

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• For this family, good things sprang from GM

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• Dining out is about people, not the food

  November 24, 2008

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  November 17, 2008

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• From dour Bushes to fun-loving Obamas

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• Payback will come for daylight saving time

  November 3, 2008

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• Amid burns and toasts, my altar ego is dry-eyed

  October 27, 2008

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• It's not my fault that I'm to blame for all this

  October 20, 2008

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  October 13, 2008

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  August 17, 2008

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  August 10, 2008

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  August 3, 2008

  Not long ago, I wrote that "near retirees," as we are now known, should consider working past the ages of 62 or 65 for all sorts of economic reasons, and we should salve our disappointment by doing some of the things now that we thought we would do in retirement - golfing in Florida or traveling in Europe.

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  July 20, 2008

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  July 6, 2008

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  June 29, 2008

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  June 22, 2008

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  June 15, 2008

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• Parents almost can see finish line

  May 18, 2008

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• Days of cursive might be history

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  April 20, 2008

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  The harassment of teachers and the intimidation of students by classroom bullies is nothing new.

• Putting a good face on aging

  April 13, 2008

  The Los Angeles Times reports that, after years of steady growth -- especially among the middle classes, the cosmetic surgery industry is suffering nips and tucks because of the shaky economy.

• Poet plucks at petals of her life

  April 6, 2008

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• Earnings escalator grinds to a halt

  March 30, 2008

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• Lessening fatigue of cancer survivors

  March 23, 2008

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• Fla. sun casts long shadow on future

  March 16, 2008

  Iraised my hand once too often at a charity auction and was the winning bidder on a week in Naples, Fla., at the gorgeous home of a generous donor, located inside a gated community and right on a golf course.

• Study fails to credit women

  March 2, 2008

  Research reported in The Archives of Internal Medicine and The New York Times suggests that men can survive to "extreme old age" -- which, for the sake of argument, is considered 90 -- if they don't smoke, manage their weight, control their blood pressure, get regular exercise and avoid diabetes.

• Don't let date nights become predictable

  February 24, 2008

  Being a family-life columnist has its perks.

• It's neat to see kids' own habitats

  February 17, 2008

  Parents Weekend is that long-standing college ritual in which parents, who dropped their freshmen off just weeks earlier, get to return to campus and see the kids in their new habitat and assure themselves that they are just fine.

• Sisters bonding over kids' weddings

  February 10, 2008

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• When a wife had to be well-dressed arm candy

  February 3, 2008

  I've always felt that I was born in the wrong era.

• Couple likes Baltimore enough to move here

  January 27, 2008

  Debra Thomas and her husband, Terry Shepard, found Baltimore in the answers they gave to one of those preferences quizzes you might get from an online dating service.

• Students traveling, but so are parents

  January 20, 2008

  My friend Betsy called me from in front of her stove, where she has been cooking for her four children for too many years to count.

• We got the one tear, and that is enough

  January 13, 2008

  For the first time in the history of crying, it actually helped a woman in the workplace.

• The deconstruction of Harriet Miers is filled with sexism

  October 11, 2005

  When the first news stories about Harriet Miers' nomination to the Supreme Court all used the same quote from President Bush describing her as "a pit bull in size 6 shoes," I decided I would listen carefully to this debate.

• Youths sound off on sex, advertising and athletes

  July 26, 2005

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• Clinton redux revives that sense of betrayal

  June 22, 2004

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• Stewart's attitude was on trial, too

  March 9, 2004

  MARTHA STEWART's conviction in federal court last week must stand as a warning to all future Marthas.

• No reason to recant support for Arnold

  October 7, 2003

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  September 16, 2003

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  December 10, 2002

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• Sniper is wrecking the games students play

  October 22, 2002

  The killings by the sniper in the white van have thrown the athletic lives of children and families into a holy mess of official overreaction and bureaucratic indecision.

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  October 6, 2002

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  July 23, 2002

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  March 19, 2002

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• Our routines will keep us busy, but the sadness will stay with us

  September 14, 2001

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• And now, for a -- of local flavor, we bring you a taste of Art Donovan

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  Hey, Jim Kelly! Try some warm olive oil on top of your head, ya big crybaby.